VLOG: The Choice for Love

Reading time: 1 – 2 minutes Hey gang! This week I worked really hard to rise above my experience of frustration, pain, and sadness involving friends I feel were being… well, less than friends. I got to a point where I almost quit, gave up, and walked away from all of it, but there was a [...] [...]

How To Be My Boyfriend (redux)

Reading time: 6 – 10 minutes I wrote an entry long ago, just before moving to The Netherlands, about “how to be my boyfriend.”  It was kind of a tongue-in-cheek response to my blossoming relationship with Jip at the time, since we had some really great conversations about what to expect of each other in our [...] [...]

What is Love, Anyway?

Reading time: 2 – 3 minutes I’ve moved my previous entry to private status for the sake of a positive move forward for that person and me. I really only wrote it because that’s what I do… I write. But I don’t want that single entry to be a constant hindrance to a healthy [...] [...]

Peacing Together Our Love

Reading time: 4 – 7 minutes The past couple of weeks have been focused on two reunions for me. Two very important, loving friends from very difference areas of my life converged in New York City to softly rush back into my days a mix of nostalgia, grief, transformation, and unprecedented feelings of peace: JIP [...] [...]